What is life?

Umm............can u tell me what is life?

About Life...........

I asked my little son,"what is life?"
"It's a game, an interesting game, "he replied".
I went to my wife and asked her the same,
"Life is a bridge betwen opportunity and obstacles,"she answered".
I asked my father's opinion about life.
He said,"A gallery of bitter-sweet memories and experience".
I went to the flowers to ask them.
They answered in soft, heart-touching voice, "beauty,love and sweetness."
"Life is the name we give to greenery and freshness,"
Replied the green trees and bushes a i asked them.
I asked for suns opinion.
"Brightness"-A beautiful one word answer i was given.
I asked a widow,"What is life?'
"Suffering "-she replied in crying voice.
A rich man said enthusiastically, "Life is happiness"
"Starvation and sorrows"
Was the answer give to me by a beggar.
I asked a teenager, she said,"Its fun"
I got totally confused and messed up.
With all those different opinion and views abt life.
And i went up to the mirror to ask the same question.
To my surprise,
"My body's image was reflected in the mirror".
and was that the answer.?

I want to know the truth.

Yesterday i read this article in a paper and it force me to think weather its ture or not so if someone find the answer then please let me know. To be honest i am not in touch with girls much. I am having a very busy life here and may be i dont know what to do to impress girls ++++smile++++

**********About Girls**************
If you smile at her, she thinks you are flirt.
If you don’t, she thinks you are arrogant.
If you look at her, she thinks you got a crush on her.
If you don’t, she thinks you pretend not to.
If you flatter her, she thinks you are yielding her.
If you don’t, she thinks you don’t give a damn.
If you are simple, she wishes you were a little stylish.
If you are stylish, she thinks you were attractive when simple.
If you try to carry on a conversation, she thinks you talk too much.
If you give an advice, she seldom follows it.
If you don’t, she thinks you don’t care.
If you try to be silent, she thinks you are boring to be with.
If you tell her jokes, she will advice you to be serious.
If you think of marriage, she thinks you are asking her to accompany you.
If you don’t, she wonders.
If you let her kiss you, she will wish you were more reserved.
If you don’t she will seek someone and console herself.
If you let her come to you, she thinks you are too cheap.
If you don’t, she would go for someone else.
If you are a good boy, she wonders why you are not a man and
If you are not, she will look for another boy………………
********************Is this true*******************

Hi and hello to only one person who is the only one person in this world who read my blog. Umm today i am going to write about human life and importance of the festival in humans life and from my font u can say that which festivals colour i am using. Definately "Christmas"
Fist about life, i am not much mature i know but i have seen alot of things in my life since my childhood and i have taken few vow as well after seeing some scene like drunkerd ppl sleepin in the road , ppl wasting life in smoking and drugs. I just want to be a good son,good brother,good friend ,good husband and good dad. i have seen lots of up and down in my life but each and everytime when there were joy and sorrow festival gave me a happy moment .
But in my opinion these festivals mean alot at the sad and bad time.
I am from a Hindu family and i am sure that no other religion has more festivals and god then hindu so when ever these festivals comes then it adorn joy in our life even small small one. Being a hindu i really believe and respect all reilgion and god. As i think there is only one god who send us here and take back as well.
Now few days later Christmas a biggest festival of christian ppl is there and i am really happy even its not our festival but i love to see people happy , together and giving gifts these are the things which makes us upper then othe human being. Even i dont know much about this festival but i know that ppl gets together and give gift to each other and santa clause , a special charecter between child who just bring joy and gift to kids...........to behonest that i dont know abt this festival that i was not in touch with any christian ppl but i hope that in future i will know much about christaianity and their festival .............
**********:::::::::*******:::::Merry Christmas:::::::********::::::*********
^^^^^^^*********************Happy New Year****************^^^^^^^^^^

Is the name necessary in this world?

I just want to know tht is the name necessary in this world.......just think this world without the name of everything.....how it would be????????? would it be same like this? or would be different??????????? how people will react and say that if we deleted these all the names from the mind of the ppl all over the world..............wont be it amazing............if i can then i will just try to see this for one hour..........
Really it would be amazing.............
Its one of the things which i want to try after making scatch of myself looking at a mirror.........but bad luck tht i am poor in drawing.................
As i think that in this world we can see different ppl some are very very intelligent and some are dull ........some are beautiful and some are ugly.......some are male and some female and some are neither a male nor a female may be god forget to give him a gender..............i am really sorry for that kind of human and want to be angry with god........but i cannot angry with god cause its the earth and here should be all kinds of human if all are same then its valueless..........if there wont be animal and if there would be animal who can think like man then i think man would be not valueable like they are these days..........if there wont be an ugly ppl then there wont be a beautiful as well...........but ugly and beautiful also depends on eyes as well and some are pretty very very pretty if u see from anyones eyes...........but those kinds of ppl are very few in this world some are past and some are present.........like Nigthangle, Mother teresa and at present Ang sang suki of Myanmar who is fighting for ppl and other ppl which i dont know but in my prospect those kinds of ppl are beautiful who think abt others...........everyone think abt themselves even me ..........think abt myself and want to be have a better life......but if i became something in my life then i have a desire a grt grt desire to do something for ppl who need help..............
I think there is a bit different in a word Pretty and Beautiful........abt pretty i just said and abt beautiful its a charm and lightning of skin and body............more then 90 percent of ppl follow the beauty either of woman or man...........
i think beauty is that thing which a man cannot judge himself or heself its the thing to be judge by other and abt other someones eyes will see that human beautiful and someone not...........so its better not to bother abt these things.............i hope 1 person will be reading my blog will smile and will say sanjib i know u are talknig abt me...................*****smile*********

finally i thought something....

Sorry for not being regular in my blog but to be honest i was really busy. But when i start to think then first i think abt my love kim who is very much for from me physically and i think how to meet each other.
We talk daily and its our daily routine so if anyday she isnt online then dont know what happen to me .............
I always wish to god to help me to become something in this world as i have a challenge to show someone............
I am happy that these days she seems to be happy more then the past and its good..............and when i see her smiling i just love it................just love it.........last time when she was saying abt her best frn who died and when i saw tear in her eyes.......what to say..........felt reallly bad..........there were 2 reasons cause i cannot see tears in her eyes and i also had missed my best friend..............so we can say more then 95% things are common in her and my life and its strange that things ,hobbies and interestes are same with two ppl who are very very far from each other.................
ummmm i think i always write long in my blog so i am stopping.............

ummm i m thinking.....................................................

when i look at mirror

One strange thing i am going to write. When i stand infront of mirror then i start to look from near abt my face and body structure. Then i try think abt myself and abt the humen being and i always ask that how and what are we human being.............but one thing i have figured out that looking at mirror i cannot think for much longer dont know why?????????
May be if you try this with you then i get my answer..........
And one another thing tht i havent heard abt an artist who had drawn his own picture looking at mirror .......have u heard abt it ? that will be great if someone does things like that isnt it?
what do u think?

something about my life

I think most of the people in this world wants to know abt life and life style of other people. About my life its very busy and simple. My childhood, it went not good to be honest. But i am realising now that a person who has seen sadness and pain in the life can only enjoy the joy..........cause no one knows joy better then him. A person who is already happy doesnt know what is happiness and what is pain in life............
My schooling went well and somehow life rolled well. I was helping my mother in her work since my childhood, but now******he he i am not much able to help her ******but trying. Abt my study i think i was a good student until i was in school after then an average student and now as well......but still i believe that i can be a good student but time is not matching with me these days and can say for past 3 years but i am trying hard........
I am sure that the college days are the best days of each and every people in this world...........wow what to say abt those days........fun with friends college environment passion to became something in the future...........each person has the same passion. Main abt mine college is that its a government college and after finishing schooling all students from 75 districts were there with high ambition and i was one of them.............
Few of our friends have created a lab in their room after stealing pratical materials from college lab******smile**** he he he
When people became mature and mature he just stuck himself with responsibilities. But its the life and in this way the life is running in this world.
My parents has tried to give me all the happiness and all the things what i wanted and i am really thank ful to them and i know that i have to fulfill their dreams as well.
Oh sorry i just turned the way......after study obviously all ppl join some organisation and i also did but till then one thing have u noticed or not in my life that no one was in my life.......how strange isnt it? I used to chat alot after joining my job. I chatted when i became free and i did it for 1 year and when chat was full of my desire then at the end i met with someone very special. Initially i started conversation with her as a friend and dont know why things were matching with her. like she was interested to know the culture, tradition.language,habit and other things of the other world(nation). Gradually we talked and dont know when i fall in love with her.
We used to talk around 2-3 hours daily and luckily i didnt have much work in the office at that time for that i am reallly thankful to god............who sent such a beautiful,understanding and perfect angel for me,who deserve better then me but he choose her for me dont know why? will ask to the god if i meet him someday.
We shared all the things in chat me and her havent hide anything witheach other and i believe that our relation stand in truth. Before meeting her i didnt know that what is love and how much it mean in humans life only i have seen it in the movies.........but when it happens with me things were changed and realised that those things which i have only dreamed are true.
Main thing abt her that she hasnt said a singe word********to me which hurt me******* from there u can imagine abt our relation and i dont know that if i have said something to her. But as much as i know my charecter i want to see alll the people happy and smiling in this world.
If somebody says that i can be happy if sanjib die then also i can make him/her happy but after setteling down my father/mother and sister and my Kim.
Her name is kim a lady who has filled joy,happiness and excitement in my life. Those are the things lacking in my life before she came and when she came what to say things are good with me.........................
We very very near with each other except there are 7 oceans between us and we are waiting the time when those ocean willl dry up..................................................................

my thinking

Dear friends,
I dont know that what other people thinks in this world and everyone in this world knows that each and everyperson has a different views and thinking. I think that if u are happy and you have the things which u want then we should try to give those kinds of happiness to other people as well who reallly need it. But we the human beings are of different types we just forgot our past very quickly. The pain of the past over shadowed by the present joy which is not permanent i guess. Just think that always that pain remains for long time rather then the happiness so we should not over joyed in the happiness , have try to share that happiness with other i believe like this.
Not everyperson but my childhood was a painful will tell u later about this. There are lots of child who comes to the world but few of them died due to poverty,carelessness and "due to thought of their parents" few ppl thinks that girls are useless and some think that this child is our mistake..............some threw their child after birth and somehow they survive their life and from the early childhood they have to kill their desire as the child of the same age gets the things what they want, even they dont have to speak..............
I think that the ppl who will be reading my blog have passed from the childhood and few of them had a good and few of them had bad as well. So i just want to try to change abit the thinking of the people and have a desire to fulfill their small small desire. I am from Nepal and in Nepal, you can see lots of these things. In papers and in reality as well. Lots of children are spending thier life in road few with family and more then 90%without family begging for small small things. Education,shelter are very far from them they are only begging for food.............when i see them just think that if my parents hadnt cared me then i might be like this...............so i am thankful to my parents for this that they cared for me and i bacame angry with those parents who just left their child in this world"a lake of pain" even teaching them how to swim in this " lake of pain".
I dont know about these things in the other part of the world but i have been to India our neighbour country things are same there as well.
I believe that "SMALL THINGS WE CAN DO" if u cannot do the big things then just try to show your sympathy to them and just try small things that u feel good. To wash the mind is the hardest work in this world i think so we should know that theing are not gone a change in quick time may be it take years an years but we just have to try...........
Like a organisation Unisef doing a very very noble work for children, just try to make them to think that they are also the part of this world and they can be something and can do something for himself and other ppl who are like him/her.....................
One story i saw recently in my city: Few peoples are begging in a tourist area in the evening time(area-thamel) one kind hearted gentleman saw them and he said them ok come then he brought a two big packet of biscuits and he went on his way then those childs came to the shop from where that gentelman have brought that biscuits ask him to take back that biscuits after refusal that shopkeer took it back giving them half price.
But i want to try to help them and want to show them this beautiful world and i wish to god to help me to success in my aim............................................
At least want to make them an good citizen who can contribute to thier nations on their way...................